Gay Dating

Looking for that special man? A long-term relationships? An intimate encounter or casual fun? If so, one of the gay dating sites below may help you find that hot guy.

Whether you’re just coming out or have been out for years, chances are you’ll find what you’re looking for at these gay personals sites. The sites below are for single gay guys looking to date or find the right guy for a relationship.

The first three sites are specialized gay dating sites. We also included some of the ‘adult’ and ‘alternative’ dating sites to expand your selection. Many of these sites also cater to couples or groups.

Top Gay Dating Sites

  1. Outpersonals
    Over 1.4 million members plus 1700+ members online when we checked. The site is aimed at singles, couples (gay or bi), and groups seeking dates, relationships, or sexual encounters of all kinds. You can chat for free in one of 11 topical or 70 geographical rooms.Outpersonals Dating Site Review

  2. Gay Friend Finder
    With over 180,000 members worldwide, this gay dating site is for those seeking a date, relationship, marriage or friendship. You can connect for free in the chat rooms and on IM. Most members are from the US with strong showings from the UK, Canada and Australia. Gay Friend Finder Review
  3. Personals
    Millions of members worldwide plus 14,500+ members online when we checked. You can chat for free in one of many geographical or topical rooms. is predominantly a site for gay men. Review

  4. Adult Friend Finder
    Adult Friend Finder has over 34 million members. A whooping 109,000 members were online when we checked. It’s aimed at gay men, gay couples, and groups as well as heterosexuals, lesbians, and Transgendered/Transvestites looking for discreet encounters, erotic chats and more. Plus you can chat in the 32 topical and 70+ geographic specific chat rooms including one for men and gay couples only. Adult Friend Finder Review
  5. Alt
    Alt has 2 million members and 7900 were online when we checked in. There are 50+ specific ‘interests’ you can search for including role playing, tongue fetish, masks etc. Alt is aimed at gay men as well as heterosexuals, couples, groups, lesbians, and Transgendered/Transvestites. You can chat for free in the 24 topic specific chat rooms including one for men only. Alt Dating Site Review